We all have shortcomings and strengths but most times on our journey in life, our brain will choose to believe the negative, the shortcomings, and the anxiety and so on instead of choosing to believe in our natural ability to overcome all our obstacles.
And because they may have failed or are currently struggling to succeed, people will often point out your faults and constantly remind you of your failures. Couple all that with jealousy, it will be very hard for you to find someone who genuinely believes in you especially if you do not have any record of public success.
We are in turbulent times AND New Times NEED New mindset.
It is time for a new personal brand, ability to network, tell powerful stories & radiate.
Practice Talking Positively To Yourself
“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself”
– George Bernard Shaw
From the first moment your head lifts off the pillow every morning, you are constantly bombarded by negative messages from society and media telling you that you’re not good enough.
We are all afraid of change at one point or another but change is uncontrollable. Instead of giving into your fears, face them head on and know that somehow, someway you will survive no matter how overwhelming the situation might be. Look at scary situations as an adventure and an opportunity to learn.
Face your fears.
The mind is a strange but fascinating tool and knowing how to use it to your advantage is the key to long-lasting success.
You see, the brain can’t always tell the difference between dreams and reality or fact and fiction. And that’s where mental rehearsal can become your best friend.
Mental rehearsal is a technique used by many top performers, including Olympic athletes. Review the outcome you want in your mind, envision it, feel it, and believe it. Play it back as many times as you need to until you genuinely believe it’s not only possible, but true.
Don’t Compare Yourself to Others
In order to build your self-esteem, you have to focus on improving your life for the better, not on making it more like your friend’s or like those of the celebrities appearing on television.
It’s your life we’re talking about, not others’.
Use Daily Affirmations Such As “I Believe In Myself”
Daily affirmations are words or phrases that you frequently say to yourself, often into a mirror. The thought behind affirmations is that the repetition helps to gradually reprogram your thinking. Therefore assisting you in developing a different view of yourself.
You can play around with different phrases to see what actually has an impact on your mood.
Helping others in need enables people to forget about themselves and their issues, just by knowing that they don’t have a certain problem another person is dealing with. They feel more grateful for what they have or the problems they don’t.
Whenever you’re working on changing personality traits or a tendency, it’s absolutely vital that you learn how to be patient.
While you can start putting changes into effect today or even this hour, it’s not possible to completely transform yourself in just a couple of days.
Try to see the whole process as a gentle upwards slope – every day, you’re getting better and cultivating more and more faith in yourself and in who you are.
Often, those who have difficulty being patient have internalized a message that says they have to be the best or be perfect.
Be your own advocate.
If you don’t believe in yourself others won’t either. No one else can make things happen for you. Be the person to yourself that you need. Certainly others can help you on your journey but you need to lead the cause and find the determination to get through. People will come and go but you will be the one constant in your life so make the most of that relationship.
Only someone who believes in themselves can believe in others too. There may be those who really like and admire us, but without self-belief, that admiration will become resentment and criticism. When someone really believes in themselves, believing in you is a wonderful, natural way of being. I hope that you are helped.